One of the great myths that seems to run in the world of the so-called "nlp experts" are the unconscious installations. There is a widespread belief by all those who justify their lack of skill (I would presume that they have the ability) in transmiting clearly and intelligibly the necessary concepts in order to understand a course of NLP, that if the a student finishes the course with the feeling that he hasn't understood anything, that does not mean he didn't take "the necessary". This absurd belief, is based on the installation of (theoretically) more or less sophisticated strategies at an unconscious level in the minds of the poor students . In fact, the theory is correct, but not they ability to carry it out.
To install a strategy, first you have to be clear about what is and how it works, and this is the first of many handicaps. But on the assumption that we know what it is a strategy, and even how to install it (with all its complexity), this is not enough for the student to bring with him something valuable.
It is also necessary in order to install these strategies, to carry out exercises that strenghts the new neural connections instead of the old ones. As Owen Fitzpatrick said: "The best installation is action."
Furthermore, it is not wrong to move the student from the feeling of confusion (even fear), that seems more advisable at the begining of the learning process, but after you just put the student into an uncomfortable zone.
Gabriel Guerrero uses to say that the installion of a new program does not guarantee anything if if its not ran, so is not enough the "magic hands" of the trainer, is necessary also the student.
Please, do not conform to believe that heor she has made his or her job even if you haven't realized about anything, leave the faith to mysticism. If you feel that you have not learned anything, probably you have not done so.
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I'm Xavier Pirla , Senior Engineer, Licensed Trainer of NLP and Director of Talent Institute and I have the luck of being part of teams of Dr. Richard Bandler and some of the best Master Trainers of the World: Gabriel Guerrero, Eric Robbie and Ron Perry . My experience in engineering and my direct contact with the best in the world in NLP has allowed me to understand what the hell is NLP. This is my blog to help to work out the engineering that drives the NLP, to have criteria for determining what is a good training and what not, and at the same time, you can keep updated with the latest developments on the NLP field.
I'm Xavier Pirla , Senior Engineer, Licensed Trainer of NLP and Director of Talent Institute and I have the luck of being part of teams of Dr. Richard Bandler and some of the best Master Trainers of the World: Gabriel Guerrero, Eric Robbie and Ron Perry . My experience in engineering and my direct contact with the best in the world in NLP has allowed me to understand what the hell is NLP. This is my blog to help to work out the engineering that drives the NLP, to have criteria for determining what is a good training and what not, and at the same time, you can keep updated with the latest developments on the NLP field.
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Dr. Richard Bandler (Co-creator and father of NLP)
Gabriel Guerrero (Full Professor of Bandler Technologies, representante legal de R. Bandler)
"Xavier Pirla is a young NLP trainer who stands out from the rest because of his enormous interest to continue learning and improving. After a decade supporting Richard Bandler in training hundreds of coaches from around the world, I can say that few understand and apply as much as Xavier what we transmit. And even fewer are as committed and interested in the welfare of their students. All this won him a place on our staff, even in courses that I dictate with Bandler"
Eric Robbie (Master Trainer of NLP)
"Xavi is sharp and aware, and cares a lot about his own continous learning as well as his work. You could learn a lot from him."
Owen Fitzpatrick (Master Trainer of NLP)
“Xavier Pirla is one of those rare individuals who maintains curiousity and an eager desire to learn along with a determination to get results. I've always been impressed with his ability to take the ideas he has learned and apply them effectively.”
Ron Perry (Master Trainer of NLP, PPT co-creator)
“If you want to learn the secrets of powerful communication Xavier Pirla is an excellent choice. He has an excellent understanding of not only the techniques but the ideas behind them. He is a very thorough and generous person who will make sure your learning experience is profound.”
Chris Morris (NLP trainer, founder of NLP Connections, Promoter of the top NLP and coaching trainers)
“Xavier Pirla is a really smart guy who is passionate about providing quality trainings and knows how to get things done and exceed people's expectations. He's kind, generous with his time and a pleasure to know”.
“Xavi Pirla is a very qualified trainer and one of the best options in Spain if you want to learn NLP. Xavi is always looking to improve his skills and knowledge and has been part of my training staff in Mexico and Spain.”
Gabriel Guerrero (Full Professor of Bandler Technologies, representante legal de R. Bandler)
"Xavier Pirla is a young NLP trainer who stands out from the rest because of his enormous interest to continue learning and improving. After a decade supporting Richard Bandler in training hundreds of coaches from around the world, I can say that few understand and apply as much as Xavier what we transmit. And even fewer are as committed and interested in the welfare of their students. All this won him a place on our staff, even in courses that I dictate with Bandler"
Eric Robbie (Master Trainer of NLP)
"Xavi is sharp and aware, and cares a lot about his own continous learning as well as his work. You could learn a lot from him."
Owen Fitzpatrick (Master Trainer of NLP)
“Xavier Pirla is one of those rare individuals who maintains curiousity and an eager desire to learn along with a determination to get results. I've always been impressed with his ability to take the ideas he has learned and apply them effectively.”
Ron Perry (Master Trainer of NLP, PPT co-creator)
“If you want to learn the secrets of powerful communication Xavier Pirla is an excellent choice. He has an excellent understanding of not only the techniques but the ideas behind them. He is a very thorough and generous person who will make sure your learning experience is profound.”
Chris Morris (NLP trainer, founder of NLP Connections, Promoter of the top NLP and coaching trainers)
“Xavier Pirla is a really smart guy who is passionate about providing quality trainings and knows how to get things done and exceed people's expectations. He's kind, generous with his time and a pleasure to know”.